MY CHILD IS INNOCENT

"How many times do you hear that your child has problem at school?"
"How many times do you think that your child is innocent to any problem he or she involved?"

The answer is No Child is Innocent.

No matter how hard you try to stick to your answer, the answer above is the right one.
As parents, we have to realize that a problem appears because of an action gets a reaction. Okay, if you think that your child does not do the action. Then does he react?
Okay, if it is normal to have a reaction towards an action. Then, your child is not innocent. If he does not react to an action, then he or she keeps innocent.

Many parents came to me keeping the assumption that their children were innocent. It is normal because their love to their children is bigger than their love to me, the teacher. However, the "my child is innocent" assumption is really going into wrong direction. Your child - sooner or later - will realize and  twist it.

Many parents forgot that kids have problem. Their problems are kids' problem. The adults - many times - think that the problems are bigger. Even, some of them told me that, "if we keep it this way, it will hurt them and they will not grow as normal and perfect adults".
To be honest, those kind of parents need to check their health. In this world, there are things that run beyond our expectation. Our kids get hurt, it will make them perfectly shaped into the adults that independently problem solver.

There are many parents out there who worry too much to their kids growth. They want to make sure that every inch the kids step has to be safe. Who can guarantee?
I do hope that we will provide a better point of view on problems occurring to our kids daily lives.

"be wise and be ready!"


salam,


Hugo